I have to agree with everybody else here. Wait until you both finish grad school. Think about this as well: you get married, and suddenly find that you can't afford having both of you go to school. Which one quits and gets a job? After one of you finishes school, will the other one ever be able to go back? Life has a funny way of creeping up, and suddenly it will be 5, 7, 10 years down the road and you still won't have gone back. I couldn't have afforded grad school right out of college, so I got a job with plans to go back to grad school, using my salary and company assistance. Then I met my wife, and I never did go back. This from a guy whose motto was "education first, life second" throughout college. I wouldn't even entertain the thought of a girlfriend in college, for fear it would interfere with my studies. I used to come up with the scenarios: My girlfriend is sick and in the hospital. I have a big final coming up. Do I study for the final or stay with the girlfriend? Cold as it may sound, study always won. (All right, it didn't hurt that I look like Herman Munster, so girls weren't exactly knocking down my door...:rolleyes ). So stick with school first - I'm sure when you're both done, you'll both be glad you did.
-Greg
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