Great topic --

1) I pay at the door and try to invite another couple along and pay their way. I see it as my chance to 'introduce live music' to someone else. I also take time to thank the owner/manager if possible, and I try to throw a hand-written note in the tip jar -- nothing fancy nor sappy, just a 'thank you for the great set' or something clipped to my tip.

2) I haven't paid for a show since mid-January. Small-ish blues joint in Tulsa.

3) I typically only pay once every 2 to 3 months for live music. My children are small so I don't get out after 7:30pm very often. They're getting old enough now that should be able to change again. 10 years ago I'd pay for live music at least once a month if not more often -- and hope to get back to that.