Did I count right... 6 relationships / dating strings in the last year or so?? Sounds to me like you're a chick magnet -- just a little rusty on feeling whether you've found the right one yet.

Doc's advice is wise beyond my ability to praise it.

Run your life with absolute gusto in pursuit of what matters to you. For me and Doc, and apparently to at least some extent you as well Jim, that is pursuing what God wants us to do. For everyone else, choose what they will pursue --- choose what matters --- choose what they will endeavor for and drive for it with all your might. Once you are on the drive you will see someone come along-side you who has the same drive, values, and purpose. They may be very different in personality -- that doesn't matter, the race is the same -- they may be very different in their progress -- that doesn't matter, the race is the same -- they may be very different than you thought they would be -- but that does not matter, the race is the same.

Your desire to be loved is absolutely not a sign of security, it is to me a sign that you have a lot of love to share. Know this, you are already loved. I love you, and love the effect you have on so many here. I cannot say how much encouragement I have drawn from you, Jim, nor how much strength and encouragement I continue to draw from having you here on the board, willing to share your life with all of us.

You've uplifted me for the day.

I'm with Doc. Go get 'em.